"Yesterday, I experienced what was, without question, the most disappointing encounter I have ever had at a Ritz-Carlton property.
I share this with genuine regret, as I am very familiar with the brand and have enjoyed exemplary service at multiple Ritz-Carlton locations across the United States and internationally. What occurred at The Ritz-Carlton, Portland, however, was a stark deviation from the values of discretion, grace, and anticipatory service that define this name.
I was welcoming close friends visiting from New York—individuals with whom I share longstanding personal and professional relationships—after traveling in to spend time together. We intended to enjoy lunch at the restaurant on the 20th floor and later visit the lounge, which we were informed would open at 2:00 PM. We arrived shortly after noon.
Our arrival began exactly as one would expect from a Ritz-Carlton: valet staff were gracious and attentive, and the lobby hosts were warm, professional, and welcoming. While waiting for our remaining guests, we were comfortably seated near the fireplace and kindly offered water. The lobby was calm, quiet, and nearly empty.
At that point, one of my guests—an advertising professional from New York—was casually taking photos to capture the moment of our reunion. This was not commercial photography, no equipment beyond a standard personal camera, and no disruption whatsoever to other guests.
Unexpectedly, a staff member—appearing to be either security or bell services—approached us and instructed to not use the flash if we were going to take a photo, despite no signage indicating such a restriction. The interaction was abrupt on his tone and unnecessarily confrontational. Wanting to preserve the atmosphere and not disrupt our gathering, we chose to let it pass.
Shortly thereafter, when a friend asked another guest to take a simple photo of us together, the same employee returned and demanded a new instruction, now the camera had to be put away. At that point, the anger tone and persistence crossed from guidance into impropriety.
I requested to speak with a manager, as this level of intrusion is not something one encounters at a luxury hotel at all, particularly when guests are seated peacefully, the lobby is empty, and no disruption is occurring.
A manager, Kevin Tompkins, arrived and was outwardly polite; however, the interaction felt pre-decided rather than inquisitive. I explained calmly that prohibiting personal photography of guests is neither customary nor reasonable in a hotel that serves international travelers. Guests, by nature, take photos and by nature will bring a travel camera which is not even professional, especially when they are patrons of the property.
I was astonished by his answer, he told that permission would be required from the marketing department or that we would need to leave the premises. To avoid escalation, I chose to disengage respectfully, thanked him, and returned to our seats waiting for our other guest to enjoy our lunch.
Unfortunately, the situation deteriorated further.
The same employee who had initiated the confrontation positioned himself roughly nine to ten feet away and stared at us continuously. This was the cherry of disrespect, and created an atmosphere of surveillance rather than hospitality. What began as a pleasant reunion became uncomfortable and hostile—entirely inconsistent with the Ritz-Carlton ethos.
My guests felt watched, unwelcome, and genuinely distressed. As a result, we canceled our lunch plans at the RC, abandoned our intention to host additional friends arriving from New York, and ultimately left the property altogether.
This experience was not about appearances, background, or misunderstanding our status. It was a failure of judgment, training, and emotional intelligence. Luxury hospitality is not about asserting authority—it is about understanding people, context, and value. What occurred reflected an employee momentarily wielding misplaced power rather than serving with professionalism.
I share this not out of anger, but disappointment. The Ritz-Carlton brand is built on trust, refinement, and an almost intuitive sense of how to treat guests. That trust was broken yesterday.
I hope senior leadership reviews this incident carefully. With appropriate training and accountability, this property can align itself with the standards guests rightly expect from the Ritz-Carlton name.
As for us, we left feeling that an experience meant to be memorable for the right reasons was instead cut short—something that, in a hotel of this caliber, should never happen."
A Tripadvisor traveler review
Jan 19, 2026